December 9th, 2012

Freewriting

Sometimes email is just too fast

An LJ friend has just posted that he's thinking of taking up writing letters again in order to keep in touch with an elderly friend who isn't online. I started this as a comment to his post, but it grew rather too long, so I thought I'd make it a post of my own.

There are people who dismiss online friendships and seem to think that only face-to-face interaction is meaningful. But those of us old enough to have once had a regular letter writing habit know that online is just the modern version of pen pals or keeping in touch with old friends via letter.

I have actually been thinking of trying to reinstate a letter writing correspondence with an old university friend. Though she has email, she never took to the online stuff and we've slipped down to just exchanging notes at Christmas time. As she lives in New York, we are unable to meet and time zones (not to mention how much trans-Atlantic phone calls used to cost, plus my phonophobia) made phone conversations into rare occurrences.

Email is fine for work or discussing things like writing or other shared interests, especially if there are a few of you. But -- and this might seem a bit odd -- to me it feels too fast for a friendly exchange of information one-to-one. Facebook and Twitter work because you keep updating little snippets, but if you write a lengthy screed in an email and get a response later the same day, what do you do? Do you write a lengthy screed back (much too time-consuming!), or wait for a week? Posting times enforced a nice slow pace to the exchange in the past. A letter very week or so felt about right, but email is expected to be instant, which doesn't suit the old style of penal pen pal relationship. Perhaps it's about to rediscover old skills and, while I'm at it, I could give my fountain pens a bit of exercise. :)

[Edited to correct typo!]

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For your amusement

I've just had a productive afternoon finishing off the fringe on a scarf I'm going to put on Folksy and also weaving in the ends on a couple of knitted hats I'm also going to offer for sale. I am now tired and am only fit for amusing videos on Youtube.

This one of a penguin falling over is an absolute classic. Note: It's essential to have sound enabled on your computer to fully appreciate it.

And for those of my LJ friends who are learning languages, you might like Benny the Irish Polyglot's multi-lingual video "Skype me maybe".

Now it's time to put the computer off, make dinner and watch TV.

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